One definition of "grace" is giving undeserved help to those in need. Most Christians practice this grace in giving of their time, effort, and finances when they see a need and feel led to respond.
Yet a legitimate question arises: Should we keep giving and giving to those who misuse or abuse what has been given them? Some people are chronic "takers" and become co-dependent on those who give to them. Those who give then become enablers.
Ephesians 4:1 says, "I urge you to live a life worthy of the calling you have received." You might call this a "hook." God has placed a "hook" on the grace He's given us. His grace is free, but once we receive it, we must live in a worthy manner. By helping those who abuse grace by living in an unworthy manner, we might be interfering with God's work. These people may need to be left alone in order to call upon God for themselves and experience His grace, His will, and His plan for their lives.
So what is a Christian to do? If you see a legitimate need, don't hesitate to give as the Lord leads you. But do so prayerfully. There may come a time when it is better to withhold so that you do not interfere with the Lord's work.
Sunday, December 21, 2008
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